Pang yang said a hell lot of meaningfull stuff that day..
nv tot i'd hear such stuff coming from him. tsk! hahaha
well. its true.. and i'm happy my parents didnt spoil me soo much.
i need assurance, just like everyone else. and for me a simple ppraise would do the job.
unfornately, living in singapore, you don hear many good stuff.
girls like to comfort and sympathize with each other..
then within themselve, they manifest in all the sympathy and pity, and become too comfortable to move out of their comfort zone.
cos they'll feel, nvm, they understand me and agree i need time to change, i'll take it SLOW.
but then if we didnt feed on so much pity assurance, we'd probably be hitting rock bottom, and then, the only way will be to move UP.
assurance exist in many forms.
assurance from pity, assurance from positive reinforcement, assurance from love, assurance for achievements.
we tend to feed on assurance from pity. eg. ' huggs. you'll be fine one day. you're not bad at all.. you just need time' these type of assurance do help, but it doesnt last. its like an overnight drug.. cos the next thing you know, you'll be facing the same prob again and wen you have no courage to break through, you go back to the pity assurance. the cycle continues, it becomes like a drug. addictive and soothing.. you cant stop having it. and ppl wont stop giving you...
something i learnt over the weekend.
i wont procrastinate NO MORE!
pick up your courage stupid girl.
step out of your comfort zone.
NOW.
