|Thursday, February 05, 2009
A RANDOM NOTEmany a times, i've been pointed at for being too honest.say it in a nasty way, i'm insensitive to other's feelings.but try to understand my side. i am not the type who enjoys stabbing ppl or making them feel hurt.talk about constructive critism!i may not be the best at it..., but i'm trying. really.wat is NOT constructive critism?- It is intended to not help the reciepient- It's primary uses include to hurt someone, shred them into peices, create guilt, destroy their self esteem and humiliate them.Well, i need to stand up for myself on this one because intensions of such are non existent. Help me here.. Maybe... just maybe.... its was the opposite party who could not take critism.How to recieve constructive critism?- Recognize the value of such critisms. It will only improve you.- Try to understand the perspective of the person offering the critism. Also known as role reversal.- Acknowlegde critism that is focused on your behaviour.- Listen actively before you begin to hate the person.- Work hard to avoid becoming defensive.Yay. looks like i'm prepared for my comskills test.and yes. i finally got a chunk of deep buried stuff off my chest.it took me a long while plus plenty of courage to type this.cos i wouldnt want it to hurt anyone like how that post hurt me.so just see it as general knowledge for future use.i'm not pointing at anyone. i say againnnnnn....i'm not pointing at anyone.bye!
the garden in my heart.messed.
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